Change

I wrote this for my younger brother….

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Oftentimes we experience change. We have to admit it that we hate such thing even though it is a permanent one. We tend to forget that it’s a usual part of life and it is common for everyone.

It’s more annoying when it happens to our friends. All of a sudden they grew up and mature into individuals we barely knew. And with my young mind I couldn’t help but ask why certain things just happen although I know I am changing, too.

I have had acquaintances and I have met new friends while I couldn’t help others leaving their long-time footprints behind. My experiences showed me that the world will continue on moving even though I was left to dwell unto memories. I know they do not mean to do such thing, perhaps they are driven by something and as what I have said there is always a constant change.

It’s hard to let go of them because you know deep inside your heart that you spent your life keeping the connection alive. Bonds aren’t created overnight. You would have to earn for it… for months and for years. And I just hope that no matter how time flies, the bonds we have with my friends will always be there no matter what change may occur.

As I continued on with life I began to get used with the change I once hated even though it wasn’t easy to accept. It takes a lot of time and courage to get used to it.I still hate it sometimes but now I know that change somehow gives life an essence. We find those real people that would stay with us no matter how confusing life is. And they are those who are really worthy to be called friends.

There are a lot of lessons out there but so far I have learned; you will never know your importance unless you experience one. For every move you do, you change a life… or you change your life. It is either for the better or for the worst. Through the changes we face, we discover the real world… if we’re lucky we find ourselves… we realize who we really are and our worth.

~ant

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post from my friendster blog

•  October 6, 2009