Her writings on her wall

January 3, 2010

Oooopsies… just wanted to break the silence within my blog.. it has been ages since i last posted here and i miss writing stuffs… however life’s making us all busy…

 

So as i was a bit sneaky… what i do when i’m bored and i have nothing else to do aside from editing photos and writing unnecessary things concerning about my life is to read…

I read books, news i found interesting, feature stories and BLOGS…

 

i happen to passed by R-yan’s place…

*coughs* Ma’am Ariane

 

and her blog posts struck me - i was smiling and laughing when i read them *nods* - i just hope she doesn’t get angry with me for reposting her articles in my blog. I’m going to give her all the credit though, i just wanted to share it although i know only a few people read other people’s blog.. or i might be wrong.

 

I sent her a message and she agreed that i could repost them here - i have proof… *grins*

 

i own nothing here except for this brief introduction (isn’t it quite obvious that i’m trying my best to make it appear long by adding spaces *snaps fingers*) Okay…Fine… I’m not going to bug you with my words anymore… enjoy reading and try to ENGULF EVERY WORD.

 

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“Love Triangles”

Lately, napansin ko, medyo uso na naman pala ang mga third parties… Most people who got dumped for another would say “it wasn’t my fault! It was that b*tch/Ah*le!” well, maybe yes… maybe no… I don’t know… But i have this question in mind though…

You see, kapag hindi pa kayo, kahit nililigawan ka nya, kung hindi mo pa naman siya sinasagot, kapag tumingin sya sa iba, wala kang karapatang sumbatan sya…

Kung kayo na, tapos tumingin sya sa iba, yan, pwede mo na syang sumbatan to your heart’s content…

Pero pano pag kayo nga, and he fell for somebody else,.. Yes of course you have the right to fight for him but the thing is, what’s there to fight for diba? Mahal mo nga sya, pero mahal naman nya’y iba. Ipaglaban mo man sya, ang tanong ngayon ay, para saan pa?

Para sa mga iniwan at ipinagpalit sa iba jan,. Para sa mga nagkaron ng “unfaithful” partners… i can’t say “i understand” because the thing is, i haven’t been there yet. But one thing is for sure, hindi nyo sila kawalan. Sabi nga nila, there are many fishes in the sea. You just happen to have caught the janitor fish which sucks on every dirt it senses… Swim on, marami pa jan^_^

Para sa mga naiwan parin, but whose partners were brave enough to tell them they’ve met somebody else. Well, i’m sorry for the loss and yet, probably it was a blessing na kahit papano, you had the opportunity to spend time with someone who is brave enough to let you know things… You see, when they tell you they’ve met someone, its not just you who is hurting. In one way or another, i know, they’re hurting, too.

Para naman sa mga nangloko at nang-iwan: bilog ang mundo. Wait till you find your match.

At syempre, para sa mga faithful, hmmm… ano nga bang sasabihin ko sa inyo? There’s no greater gift to your partner than respect and unconditional love… For some people, they don’t believe in happily ever afters… Who knows if it does really exist. Maybe it does, maybe it doesn’t… But i’m sure, its something we make… It’s a recipe designed for two people to make… so when you find that person you see yourself growing old with, make sure you start making your own happy ending.

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“FYI”

 

To all those who keep on comparing themselves to other people;

To all those who think they are better than everybody else;

To all those who think so highly of themselves and who belittle others;

Heed this:

 

 

What has gotten into you? Why do you keep comparing yourself to other people? Tell me, does it give you a great feeling of satisfaction to brag about you being better than most people surrounding you?

 

Well, sorry to burst your bubble dear but I beg to disagree. Graduating from one of the most prestigious universities does not make you smarter nor more qualified nor better than everybody else. In fact, earning a bachelor’s degree, from any school for that matter, does not make you any more special than anybody.

 

You see dear, you can’t just judge people based from their educational background. Sometimes, better lessons are learned from outside the restricted corners of classrooms.

 

Remember dear that the man who discovered fire was not even capable of fully speaking a defined language, much more reading and writing. Look back in history. A lot of personalities who has admirable achievements didn’t even know what college meant and yet, they succeeded. They didn’t earn any degrees but they certainly know what they really wanted in life and they were certain with what they were capable of doing. And I think, beyond good education, having that kind of outlook in life would be a much greater advantage to anybody’s part.

 

So the next time you compare yourself with other people just because of your educational attainment, THINK AGAIN.

 

Remember what our teachers in primary school kept telling us: EMPTY CANS PRODUCE GREATER NOISE WHEN YOU LET IT ROLL DOWN THE HILL THAN THE FULL ONES.

 

To sum things up, the point dear is:

1.   Stop belittling other people;

2.   Nobody is better than anybody;

3.   Before you open your mouth, examine yourself carefully;

4.   If you don’t have anything nice to say, keep your thoughts to yourself;

5.  Stop comparing yourself to other people

6.   Lastly, prove that you’re worth something. Please, quit complaining!

 

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I copied the quote from her blog post entitled, “Places i want to go”

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Just what the book “The Secret” says: The world is governed by law of attraction. Your thoughts are transformed into energy which stimulates the universe to change it self into something that you’ve thought it to be. You attract what you think.

 

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“Speaking of the Devil”

Last time, I talked about places where I want to go. Today I’d like to talk about rights. First in my list is the very much abused freedom of speech.

 

It’s a common knowledge, even to a grade schooler, that freedom of speech is something innate. Something that comes naturally, just like breathing. This is basically the reason why this is one right that is commonly abused by some people. But you see, it does not have to be this way.

 

Freedom of speech, just like everything else, just like life itself, has its limitations. Not because you were given a gallon of ice cream means you’d eat it all right?

 

EVERYTHING THAT IS IN EXCESS IS BAD FOR YOU.

 

We were given the basic freedom of speech for us to be able to express our selves. Well probably, for you, talking ill of someone or something may still be covered by your freedom of speech. Well, probably it is, probably its not (remember slander and libel?). But you see, the world is governed by certain laws. Laws equals limitations. It might not have been explicitly stated in our bill of rights that our freedom to speak has limitations but certainly, there are limitations to it. What limits our right to speak is called your ETIQUETTE, MANNERS, DECORUM. If you don’t have this, then I understand why you’re like that.

 

And speaking of this right, there’s this one way that most people today use to abuse this right and that is: UNLIMITED TEXT MESSAGING, GROUP MESSAGING.

 

Well, at first I said, unlitxts come quite handy, especially during my college days wherein we had to relay school info to our classmates. But later on, with all due respect to everybody, it became such a nuisance. You see, most of my classmates back then were using a SMART SIM and I was using globe. So what happens most of the time is that, messages are relayed but only to those who are using smart sim because, quote and unquote: “Wala akong extra load”. Okay fine.

 

And today? I’m getting spam messages about low interest loans, promos and other bunch of nonsense!

 

What’s even worse is that, some people also use it as a sort of blog, you know, texting people to update friends to let them know what’s up with them.

 

Well, it’s good to be connected. I admit, I do GMing sometimes but before I send it to my grouplist, I read my message a couple of times first. I have to consider whether:

1.   it is worth sending at all (especially that I don’t use unlitxts because I don’t know how to use it^_^)

2.   whether it may be offensive to some or not and lastly

3.   whether the people in my grouplist would be able to relate to it or not.

The last time I went out, I heard this group of teens saying “Nag GM na naman sya. Like may sense naman sinasabi nya right? Sayang lang ATP nya sa pagtetxt”.

 

Well, come to think of it, sana, before you guys send your next GM, think about this: would those people in your grouplist really appreciate it? Or would they rather think it’s a waste of storage space?

 

As they say, there are three things in this world that can never be taken back: time spent, actions done and words spoken.

 

So be careful with what you say/text. You may regret sending/saying them in the long run.

 

So this is it. Enjoy the rest of your day people!

 

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Learned something?

*winks*

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post from my friendster blog

• August 4, 2009